A New Documentary Explores Pamela Anderson's Life Off-Camera (2023)

In Pamela, a Love Story, the flashing lights of the paparazzi and lurid tabloid headlines that marked Pamela Anderson’s life during the early aughts are far removed from the quiet life she’s made for herself now, after retreating to her grandmother’s boathouse on the small island town of Ladysmith, British Columbia, where she grew up.

Helmed by director Ryan White and co-produced by one of Anderson’s sons, Brandon Lee, the film is a surprisingly gentle meditation on Anderson’s extraordinary life, going from her turbulent childhood, during which she suffered multiple abuses, to her discovery at a Canadian football game, to the dizzyingly meteoric fame that came after she became a Playboy model and television star via Baywatch in the 1990s and early 2000s. Her career and romantic relationships provide rich fodder for a modern fairy tale, a “Cinderella story on steroids,” as White refers to it. Anderson’s life appears to reach its apex once she falls in love with, marries, and starts a family with musician Tommy Lee, but that image is shattered once a stolen intimate home video of the couple becomes the Internet’s first viral moment.

While the film addresses the gross sexism and misogyny that cause upheaval Anderson’s life and career in the wake of the notorious tape, it’s less concerned with the pain of the past than it is the life that Anderson has built since, showcasing her resilience and the way she has leaned into being a mother, an activist, and a free-spirited artist—defining herself outside of the narratives foisted on her by the public.

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White had not anticipated directing a documentary about Pamela Anderson; in his career he has shied away from covering celebrities, but he changed his mind after a Zoom meeting with Lee, who urged him to take a call with Anderson.

“I was born in 1981 and I had this image of Pamela in my head as the most famous person in the world to me when I’m coming of age,” White tells TIME. “She was like my Kardashian, my Marilyn Monroe. We had a two or three hour conversation and everything about her surprised me. That’s what I’m hoping for as this film comes out, that people will be really surprised about who the real Pamela Anderson is.”

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Lee’s tells TIME his hope for the film is similar: “The real message here is that there is a real person underneath all of those experiences.”

The film draws on Pamela Anderson’s huge personal archive

White had a wealth of material to draw on for the film, thanks to Anderson’s faithful self-documentation. Throughout her adult life, Anderson has kept a journal, writing about everything from her career goals to her romantic relationships and family life; in one particularly bittersweet scene in the documentary, she writes a letter to her then-one-year-old son Dylan, following the incarceration of her then-estranged husband Tommy Lee. In addition to her journals are an archive of VHS tapes that document everything from home life with her sons and their childhood birthday parties to vacations with ex-husband Tommy Lee. For Brandon Lee, Anderson’s documentation comes from a very personal place.

“I think through the years after going through so much, she’s clung to a lot of her personal treasures and guarded them over the years,” he says. “They’re kind of her evidence to herself that over the years she had a wonderful family and a lot of fantastic moments.”

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Brandon Thomas Lee and Pamela Anderson in 'Pamela, a love story'

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For years, Anderson stored the journals and tapes in a loft in the boathouse, not revisiting them until she offered all of the archive, without reviewing it, to White for the documentary, allowing him to not only use the archive for research but to use the material in the film. Upon being given access to the archive, White flew up to Ladysmith, where he filmed Anderson diving back into the old journals and tapes for the first time in years and later, in some of the sweetest moments of the film, reviewing home videos with her sons on a VCR and monitor that White got from a local pawn shop.

The extensive materials become the thruline of the film, showing the growth and evolution of Anderson throughout the years, from her childhood to present day. As such, handling the archive became one of the most crucial and important elements of the film’s production. When White began doing the research for the film back in Los Angeles after the first trip to Ladysmith, he tasked Lee with carrying the first shipment of tapes back to L.A. via a carry-on that couldn’t be put through the airport’s X-Ray machine, having each tape checked individually. Later, White actually drove a cargo van with much of the archive from Ladysmith to Los Angeles over the course of five days, lest he risk losing any of the archive by sending it via mail.

Anderson was hands-off when it came to her portrayal

The ethics of documentary filmmaking—especially when a subject or those close to a subject are involved, like Anderson’s son Brandon being a producer—can be tricky, but White found that while Anderson was an enthusiastic collaborator as a subject, she had zero interest in trying to control the edit or direction of the film, something he found refreshing, especially for someone with her level of fame, who might be concerned with how they were presented to the public.

“She’s very collaborative from an emotional level and an artistic level, but when it came to the filmmaking and editing conversation, she was very detached from the process, which appealed to me as a storyteller,” White said. “I thought, this is rare. Why is she not asking all of these really enterprising questions you would typically get out of someone?”

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White said Anderson’s openness to working with him and sharing the most vulnerable parts of her life with him as a key part of the trust he was able to exercise while making the film, pointing to her offering him her diaries and videos and allowing him to use what he wanted without consulting her first as one of the most outsize examples of this, as well as a particularly raw scene where she allows him to interview her in the bathtub while she reflects on the pain of being unable to make her marriage work with the father of her children, something that her son says he believes she was processing for the first time while on camera.

“This woman is, shockingly, for her stature of fame and celebrity, so vulnerable in the way she’s willing to work, to open up,” White said.

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Lee said that his mother’s hands-off approach when it came to the film was a part of her respect for White’s craft as a filmmaker, seeing it as her way of being a true collaborator, modeling the behavior she hoped people would do for her when she was in the driver’s seat.

“If we’re at a photo shoot, she wants to be the subject, she knows she’s the art,” Lee says. “She does not want to step on the artist’s toes ever because she knows what that feels like. She definitely knows that from the process of writing her book; if someone stepped on her toes, it was a disaster, it was her process.”

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Pamela Anderson in 'Pamela, a love story'

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The goal of the documentary was not to correct the narrative

Toward the end of the documentary, Anderson’s world is upended once again when the Hulu series is set to release. White stresses that the documentary is in no way a response to the series; according to him, they began working on the documentary before they even knew that the series existed. For Anderson, who has not seen the series and has no plan to, the goal behind making the documentary was not to correct the narrative, but to tell her story authentically.

“From the beginning, both Pamela and I have said that this has nothing to do with taking the narrative back from that show—she never liked that type of messaging,” White says. “With her memoir and this film coming out, it is her getting to take her narrative into her own hands, but that was never her goal—they’re both artistic expressions that tell her story authentically, but she’s not trying to course correct how anyone else has told it.”

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Where can I watch Pamela a love story? ›

Available on BET Plus.

How long is Pamela documentary? ›

Running time: 112 MIN. Production: (Documentary) A Netflix release of a Dorothy Street Pictures, Tripod Media, Colony Entertainment production. Producers: Jessica Hargrave, Ryan White, Julia Nottingham, Brandon Thomas Lee.

Is the Pam and Tommy video available? ›

Pam & Tommy is available to stream on Hulu.

Is Pamela Based on a true story? ›

Pam & Tommy is based on the true story of Pamela Anderson and Tommy Lee's stolen sex tape. It was taken from the couple's home by a resentful contractor – played by Seth Rogen in the show – and went from underground bootleg-VHS to being put online to become a global sensation in 1997.

What channel is Pam and Tommy documentary? ›

Pamela Anderson Will Respond to Pam & Tommy in a New Netflix Documentary.

Where can I watch Pam and Tommy miniseries? ›

Watch Pam & Tommy Streaming Online. Hulu (Free Trial)

How much of the Pam and Tommy documentary is true? ›

Going by some major sources (including the 2014 Rolling Stone article upon which the show is based and some excerpts from Tommy Lee's autobiography, Tommyland), Pam and Tommy is surprisingly faithful to real life.

When did Pamela lose her baby? ›

The series has taken some creative liberties with the story as Anderson's miscarriage occurred in June 1995 – months before the sex tape was stolen, differing from the chronology depicted in the show.

How did Pamela get found? ›

Pamela was first "discovered" at a British Columbia Lions football game, when her image was shown on the stadium screen. The fans cheered her and she was brought down to the football field. Because of her fame in Vancouver, she signed a commercial contract with Labatt's beer to be the Blue Zone girl.

Did Pam and Tommy give permission for show? ›

Unfortunately, that is not the case. While Pam & Tommy focuses on Anderson, the producers were able to develop the series without her participation or permission by optioning the rights to an article published by Rolling Stone in 2004, disregarding Anderson's life rights.

Did Pam and Tommy sell the rights to their tape? ›

In 1998, Anderson filed for divorce from Lee and though neither made a profit from their own sex tape, others did. Pornographer and Internet Entertainment Group founder, Seth Warshavsky, burned Gauthier and sold the DVD rights to Vivid Entertainment for $15 million and the tape went on to generate $77 million.

Do Pam and Tommy still talk? ›

Tommy and Pamela remain in contact during his prison stint, and the couple even briefly get back together following his release. In 1999, the couple openly discuss the possibility of remarriage, with Pamela telling People: "I picture Tommy and me… old, toothless, on a bench somewhere with our tattoos."

Is the Pam and Tommy story on Netflix? ›

"It really gives me nightmares," Anderson says in the documentary profile (now streaming on Netflix).

How can I watch Pam movies? ›

How to Watch The Thing About Pam. Right now you can watch The Thing About Pam on Peacock or fuboTV. You are able to stream The Thing About Pam by renting or purchasing on Google Play, iTunes, Amazon Instant Video, and Vudu.

Is Pamela on Disney plus? ›

See the story of Pamela Anderson and Tommy Lee brought to life in a biopic series on Disney Plus. Pam & Tommy is an eight-part biopic series, set in the 1990's.

Where can I watch Pam and Tommy other than Hulu? ›

Pam & Tommy is an exclusive Hulu series, so you won't be able to watch Pam & Tommy on TV on conventional cable. If you want to watch Pam & Tommy on TV, you can stream it through the Hulu app on your Roku Stick, Amazon Fire TV Stick 4K, Apple TV and similar streaming device.


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